Hi!
I thkn you can use the following line (which is the one I use, BTW) to compile aMule. It will compile all of its options:
./configure --enable-webserver --enable-amule-daemon --enable-amulecmd --enable-amule-gui --enable-cas --enable-wxcas --enable-alc --enable-alcc
just add others if you need them (like --enable-optimize and --disable-debug). That way, you will have amuled (it has no GUI, it's just the daemon) and you'll also have amuleGUI, amuleweb and amulecmd to control it. It also builds regular monolithic amule, for usage when you login to your KDE (stop the daemon before of course)
Regards.