HayArms,
thedude0001 is right, instead of creating a debian package, compile wx yourself and leave it in a directory in your home.
Open the wx tarball in a directory and:
$ ./configure --enable-debug --disable-optimise --enable-debug_flag --enable-debug_info --enable-debug_gdb --with-opengl --enable-gtk2 --enable-unicode --enable-largefile --prefix=/home/user/wxWidgets-cvsu && make && make install
Don't forget to run aMule like this:
$ LD_LIBRARY_PATH=/home/user/wxWidgets-cvsu/lib /path/to/amule &
Cheers!