hi, i got kinda of a problem....
i'm running aMule 2.0.3; works fine

through linksys router(my 3rd one lucky router...)
but if someone else jumps on the line with eMule i'm basically done; all the pings to router increased, can't log in etc.
so now, how important is KAD ? for that eMule? i will ask to switch it off, if now ban; but this is getting on my nerves, yeh, i have changed the maximum rates for connections etc, no use.
for aMule, is there a binary for XP? i'm not sure how to compile it for XP, under my linux

(not that i would care....really)
i'm using QoS, but then can't use it for all the protocols

just ridiculus.
please advise