ooops. - x86_64. ok, the rpms above are ix86-32bit. they work with the suse-wxGTK, shipped with the installmedium. do you use the wxthings from suse, too, or from a different source?
have you already tried to change you kde-theme to a kde-standard? (in your kde-control-center, something with "style" or so) does the same error occur after changing?
does the output in your terminal, from which you started amule, show any helpful messages?
you also can visit
http://www.hirnriss.net/?area=cvs and try an actual cvsversion for testing.