Guys,
thanks for yours answers with the couple of tricks like:
the "Go to Folder -> ~/.aMule/Incoming" (I use this one, very handy now)
or the:
"You can trick it, if you type "open ~/.aMule" (or similar) in the terminal (shell). Or create an alias for later more easy use. The terminal application is in "/Applications/Utilities/"
But the main thing is this:
This is a tipical Linux vs. Mac issue,
Linux x86 and Mac OS X users although they basically use the same OS (Unix) the kind of users are also basically different, most Linux users IMHO are "coders" and although there are many "Terminal Mac users" the vast mayority of Mac OS X users are GUI oriented. We design, cut video, make art, mix music, photography, web pages, use iLife, Dreamweaver....and so on.....we are used to make double click somewhere and things just work. Don't ask us to "compile" this or that, using this or those commands on the terminal, because we don't know or worst, we don't like that, if I want to do that, I'd use linux and same my money instead of using a Mac, but I concentrate in being productive, it's just as if I buy a car, I just want to get inside, start the engine, drive the car and enjoy the ride, I don't care much about how the car itself works. It is not better or worst than linux, it's just the way the Mac world is, a different philosophy, remember most OS X users come from OS 9, which is 100% GUI, where there is not even a terminal.
We are not asking for fancy lights flashing when a file is downloaded or anything difficult to code, we are just simply asking that the default "Incoming" folder is made visible in Finder and that, just simply take of a folder to be renamed from ".aMule" to "aMule", as simple as that (or something like that), nothing else!!, I personally don't care if that folder is in Documents, or User, or whatever folder your fancy better, but please make it visible :-)
If you don't change that, I can assure you that 95% of standard Mac users won't find the "Incoming" aMule folder. It took me sometime to find it and I consider myself an experienced Mac user (with little "Terminal" knowledge)....
Thanks
Mario