Thanks for the replies....ive given up using amule now....i tried a variety of port numbers and on my new adsl connection is simply doesnt work, as mentioned before, when i was using my isps pay as you go adsl it worked fine, now it wont d/l....u/ling goes along nicely, but there is simply no d/l....or if there is it is in the 0.1-5k sec bracket and thats not something worth using.
I tried ports upto 60,000 plus, but still nothing, i often get the message my port (whatever it is at the time) is not reachable, i keep getting a low ID and being banned as a result. No d/ls either....so not having a lot of fun. I can connect to servers, in fact everyting is as it should be, but no d/ls...
What is bizarre however is that i am now using edonkey....buggy as hell, but it works...d/ls fine...port is reachable generally....altho i still get banned a lot....odd and disappointing as i much prefer amule.
Thanks all anyway. If someone comes up with a better solution please let me know.